Look after yourself, you only get one go at this.
A
long time ago, in the distant past, well ok, about 12 months ago I suggested in
this blog that if you’ve got an ailment that goes on for any length of time
then it’s probably a good idea to get yourself off to see your doctor before
it’s too late. This stemmed from me ignoring the “Bleeding Obvious” for far too
long when my voice was knackered.
Back
in September Anna and I met with an old friend whilst out for lunch before she
disappeared back to Lincoln for her final year at University. We both noticed
that his voice was somewhat croaky and weak compared to normal. I asked him
what was up and he explained that he’d been having problems with his voice for
a few months………………… The alarm bells rang immediately with me as it was exactly
the same symptoms I’d managed to ignore. We chatted for a while and I went
through my treatment with him, without trying to scare him too much, but just
enough for him to go and see his doctor. By the time we’d finished lunch he’d
been on the phone to his surgery and appointment had been booked.
Over
the next couple of months we kept in touch, mainly with his son via FB. It
transpired that as soon as he saw his doctor he was placed on the 14 day
pathway and thus began the web. He’s 25 years older than me and built like a
whippet, not a spare ounce of fat on him at all. 20 sessions of Radiotherapy
were his reward for seeing the quack and like everyone who undergoes that
treatment is was tough for him and his supportive family.
On
Tuesday of this week we were out in the evening an bumped into the son, we had
a long chat about life, the universe and his old man. I was gobsmacked when he
said that his father is now in remission following his treatment at RBH, brilliant
news! He’s still knackered, but determined to be back working as soon as he
can, albeit at a slower pace we all hope.
This
just goes to show what amazing treatment you can receive on the NHS if you get
seen early enough to allow them to treat you properly.
It
appears to be the time for friends to be ill, as well as my old friend there are
two other people who were great support to me when I was ill. So Eek and
Gordon, kick it into touch please guys.
To
end this little piece I thought it would be a good idea to add a little humour.
There are loads of daily blogs on Facebook, but by far the funniest I’ve read
is Peter and Jane the subline is “Peter
& Jane have exciting adventures with Mummy. Mummy likes gin. Peter &
Jane like starting fires, trying to kill each other and driving Mummy to drink”
this doesn’t tell half the story, I’d urge you to read a few of the blogs to
get a taste of the brilliant writing and observations. You’ll grow to love Judgy
Dog, Gadget Twat and the other regular characters. However don’t just read the
blog, read some of the comments too, they can be side splittingly funny. I
occasionally post comments, usually featuring “The Current Mrs C.” I’d
mentioned the fact that I also write an occasional blog, the next day it had
over 1,000 views, the highest daily hit rate since I started writing! None of
the tight fisted “Yummy Mummies” bought the book though - #Shoulder2Shoulder
As always, thanks for reading.
#Shoulder2Shoulder.